Show interest by nodding at the right time
This gives your partner all the important signals that you are fully engaged in what they are saying.
Charlene says: “Maintaining eye contact and showing signs of engagement, such as nodding and/or asking questions where appropriate, can show that you are fully engaged in the conversation.
“It’s important to understand what you should do or say when interacting with others to help you fully engage in the conversation.”
A big smile and laugh goes a long way
Some even say that they can be contagious. It can make you feel connected to a person when you are able to share a smile or laugh together.
Smiling and laughing with someone can help others feel comfortable in your presence, and it also helps show off your fun personality.
When someone smiles or laughs with you, these powerful non-verbal cues indicate a confident and open person.
This will help your partner feel that what they say is important and taken seriously.
People want to feel heard when they are communicating with someone.
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Ensuring that you are not distracted by notifications on your phone is imperative to show that you are fully engaged and interested in what they are saying.
Summarizing and restating what you heard is a powerful way to show that they listened. This can ultimately create a better bond between the two people.
This shows your honesty and helps your partner trust that they can count on you to do what you say.
It can also help strengthen your faith in your partner’s promise to be there for you when you need them most.
Be sure to use positive language that shows excitement and enthusiasm where appropriate.
It is important to be authentic in choosing positive language as well.
You can share a similar experience you had to show that you relate to their story.
However, remember to give them an opportunity to share their story, as it is important that the person feels heard.